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基于我和朋友拿回这本书了，那就继续这个系列啦 ----------------------------我是分割线------------------------------ 占有，会破坏爱的生命力 有占有欲不是一件坏事，正是这种占有欲促使了一方向另一方靠近，然而占有欲泛滥就成了灾难。 每个人都在追求自己想要的生活，如果你的占有满足了自己，却影响了对方的生活。 这样的占有显然是愚蠢的，因为对方一定会表现出不满，会抱怨，会躲避，会反抗。 爱会产生占有的欲望，但占有并不代表爱。 在两人相处的过程中，既不要完全占有对方，也不要被对方占有，否则爱情将失去生命力。

最近比较忙碌，因为2月是 reporting month 昨晚也搞到4点才睡觉（虽然是去 gathering 啦 明天可能再 post 一个文 今晚 gathering 和中学的一个，明天下午和大学的一个，然后就可以闭关在家了 :D 我发觉我很喜欢有质量的独处，我应该会在某一个文里讨论这个 接下来都没有公共假期了，我的计划是在 3月 14日和15日拿假期，所以可能在那几天找一日专写部落格和写我的 intern weekly log 接下来几个礼拜都可能放一些我之前写了放着没 post 的文 那么期待几个礼拜后能尽情地写文 （下个礼拜应该会有一个短短的 Febuary review 啦） --------------------------------我是分割线--------------------------------- "At that glorious place, deep within the middle of nowhere, this learned sage of the East shared it with me. I too etched its words into my heart. They serve as a daily reminder of all what that we are - and all that we can be. The words came from the great Indian Philosopher Patanjali. Repeating them every morning before I sit down to meditate had a very profound influence on the course of my day." Julian then showed me the card. The quotation read : When you are inspired by some great purpose, some extraordinary project, all of your thoughts break their bonds: your mind transcends limitations, yo...

After learning martial art for 4 years, I would tell you that Yes, I can fight and Yes, I know how to kill Muay Thai didnt teach me how, striking to kill is quite tiring I imagine BJJ give me rear necked choke, which is a very very effective and easy way to kill a person BJJ also give me plenty of real fighting experience And from experience I can tell you 100%, all the martial arts are useless if you don't constantly apply it to a real enemy in order to develop muscle memory You can kick sandback, punch the air all day, and they will do you 0 good when it comes to real fight So why the heading ? Can I beat Bruce Lee ? Ermm I think in a BJJ competition, with rules and restriction, I can really beat someone who never practice it, it is so common sense HOWEVER, Bruce Lee is a street fighter, eye gauging, groin kicking, toe stepping etc, using the most energy efficient way to take down enemy is his philosophy So I have very little chance in the street rule OKAY actua...

To transcend pain, you must first experience it. How can you really know the joy of being on the summit of the mountain unless you have first visited the lowest valley. Stop judging events as either positive or negative.  Rather, simply experience them, celebrate them and learn from them. Every event offers you lessons. These little lessons fuel your inner and outer growth. Most people have grown the most from their most challenging experiences. And if you meet with an outcome you did not expect and feel a little disappointed, remember that the laws of nature always ensure that when one door closes another open. The concept, in concise, is that every experience, even the worst, offers you a lesson. Therefore, you should open your mind to the learning in every event. In this way, you will grow stronger and happier.

所以我还是用华语来写好了，因为又是一个敏感课题 我不能说我是个无神论者，我并不坚持不相信神的存在 我一直以来的论点是，神存在与否并不重要 这个呢，我就先搁着等下再回来 我先说我对宗教的看法，世界绝对需要宗教 理由有很多，可是我的角度来看不是因为神啊佛啊什么的 这不是一个完美的世界，恶的力量一直在暗中作祟 我不是说那种万恶不赦的罪行，我是说大家平时所为的小恶，或者恶的念头 要想象宗教是不是有必要，只要想象没有宗教的世界就好了 在痛苦的人无神可祷告，很多很多的人会犯罪，因为没有道德的约束 我愚钝地想表达的是，我觉得，宗教的作用是维持社会次序，还有引人向善，或者至少用各种宗教里的惩戒阻止人向恶发展 只要世界上只有一半的人肯相信，或者半信半疑死后的世界和地狱的宣判，这个世界就压抑了一半恶的念头 只要多一个在生活中挣扎的人相信神明的存在，就多一个人得到力量多撑过一天 所以说神存在与否重要吗 当一个不相信神的人拿着枪指着一个相信神的人，你觉得什么事会发生呢 相信神的人会说出很多神会怎样怎样 不相信的人会说就这样完了咯 所以存在与否真的不重要，相信的人继续从信仰得到力量，不相信的人就不相信罗 所以我说是个无神论者，可是你要说服我说神存在的话，我也随便，因为我觉得人生还有好多比探讨创造主的存在更重要的事 我是佛教徒，我对宗教的种类不是很清楚 可是我知道每个宗教都是引人向善，对教诲的诠释全看个人 所以宗教绝对没有好坏，也没有高低之分，只看你适合哪一个 基于这个理由，我是希望世界上所有的宗教都抱着绝对开放的眼光来看待其他宗教啦 我很喜欢佛教是因为这个宗教非常非常适合我吧 佛教里并没有神，我们有佛，可是我们不向佛祈祷 佛教更像一种 “教你如何过生活，或带你从另一个角度看待世界“ 对我来说，佛不重要，佛教的教诲才是重点 我个人觉得，若佛教的佛们真的存在，他们也绝对不希望人们拜拜烧香给他们 他们绝对是希望人们能翻看佛教的教导，然后很纯粹地做一个好人 因为我们没有神，只有教诲，教诲教你该怎么对付什么情况，该怎么处理人际关系 所以任何人都可以实践佛教教诲 这个是我非常非常喜欢佛教的地方 我真的不是很想 point finge...

谁不曾爱上自由 谁不曾独上高楼 谁不曾为梦放手 谁不曾孤单行走 勇敢大闹天宫 就怕你宁愿流泪望天 却不昂首向前 --《齐天大圣》，华晨宇

There goes the first month of 2018 Just a short review of how I performed  VS  my plan/expectation of of myself  To Do List 1.) Meditate - Been doing like 5 to 10 minute a day, sometimes 20 to 30 min on weekend - But not so consistent after I started internship - Plenty of room for improvement 2.) Trading i.) Paper Trade - Yes, have been doing quite consistently - Despite I have not even been performing good in paper trading, the real aim here is to obtain experience and feedback from the market, so that I can move up the learning curve faster ii.) Visual backtest - I focus less on this since market turned good in later December, but since the market has turned bearish again, I plan to do more of this now iii.) Read books - Have read quite a lot of books on ktm  - However, I find that it is also important to be able to integrate what you read into real life practice - Anyway, read > no read - Ironically I read more when I ...